In this day and age, sadly, it has become necessary for parents to have to protect their child from predatory coaches. And for coaches to protect themselves from improper appearances.
So that begs the question, "What is a proper way to communicate with your players?" With so many avenues of private communication, this can be a slippery slope for all involved. Over the last several years, we have heard about coaches having inappropriate relationships with their players and the parents never knew until somehow, someone slipped. Text messages, Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter all make it easy to hide an illicit relationship or predatory behavior.
To compound the question, most people, myself included, are of the mindset that around 14u, a player is responsible for being their own biggest advocate with their coaches. If there is a problem, the athlete should address it with the coach themselves before a parent even thinks about getting involved. We are continually instructed to let the athlete handle all the communication with prospective college coaches.
How private do we allow this to be? In my opinion, all messages relating to the team as a whole should be one big group message, whether it be via text, FB, or Twitter. Myself, I prefer text, as it eliminates the end run into direct messaging. If a message is intended for one particular player, I believe the parents should be copied on every message. Every single one.
This also bleeds over into how much, if any, time do you allow your athlete to spend alone with a coach. It is a sad state of affairs that parents can't entrust their child's well being to their coach without the potential for disaster, real or imagined.
So that begs the question, "What is a proper way to communicate with your players?" With so many avenues of private communication, this can be a slippery slope for all involved. Over the last several years, we have heard about coaches having inappropriate relationships with their players and the parents never knew until somehow, someone slipped. Text messages, Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter all make it easy to hide an illicit relationship or predatory behavior.
To compound the question, most people, myself included, are of the mindset that around 14u, a player is responsible for being their own biggest advocate with their coaches. If there is a problem, the athlete should address it with the coach themselves before a parent even thinks about getting involved. We are continually instructed to let the athlete handle all the communication with prospective college coaches.
How private do we allow this to be? In my opinion, all messages relating to the team as a whole should be one big group message, whether it be via text, FB, or Twitter. Myself, I prefer text, as it eliminates the end run into direct messaging. If a message is intended for one particular player, I believe the parents should be copied on every message. Every single one.
This also bleeds over into how much, if any, time do you allow your athlete to spend alone with a coach. It is a sad state of affairs that parents can't entrust their child's well being to their coach without the potential for disaster, real or imagined.