okiedad1961
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Have heard some experiences on the site ,of teams that have these ladies on there teams.Coaches and Org leaders what are your expectations?
It does the committed player no good to Travel that schedule or spend that kind of money. They would be better off playing fairly local and preparing to go on to their next stage in life.
There are very few D1 players that would have to play at the highest level to keep sharp for college. The majority of players are D3, naia with a mix of D2. Most travel ball teams can compete with or defeat those levels of college. I don't know of a parent of a committed player who will pay that kind of money for dues and travel and then be content with their kid playing that kind of role.
My recommendation is still to finish out the season and move on. Find a team of comitts that play at a higher level if need be.
Ok, here is why I asked the devils advocate question. My DD is 14U and has verbally committed to a D1 SEC school. As a family, we agree with her that she needs to face the best hitting and pitching to be ready to play in what many consider the toughest conference, and she will play the schedule to do so. Boulders answer reassures me we are not alone in our thinking.
First, congrats to your daughter and your family. That is quite an achievement.
We went through this with my oldest daughter when she committed to a D2 school for softball. Her TB team had about 1/2 the squad move on to play college and half just wanted to finish out their last year of 17-18U ball. There were commitment issues from some of the girls and we weren't sure if we would even have enough girls some weekends. This was unfortunately because they had all been teammates since 11U and had built quite a team.
When faced with this decision we reached out to her college coach for advice. She told us that we need to continue to see the best competition we could without adding more travel time and expense than we were already used to. She said the tournaments we were playing would be indicative of the competition we would see in our league.
In the end we switched teams and played out last season with Stingrays. They made it easy for us and most of the girls were in the same boat. We ran into our previous team at 18U states and our premonitions were correct as they only had 10 girls and only about half of them really wanted to be there.
I think I would make sure you find the right fit. Being committed can cause lax and down right laziness in some athletes. This (IMO) is detrimental to teammates who are trying to remain sharp and performing at a high level. Have the honest conversation with your travel team, college and daughter to find out what the best options are for where you need to be in a year or so.
Ok, here is why I asked the devils advocate question. My DD is 14U and has verbally committed to a D1 SEC school. As a family, we agree with her that she needs to face the best hitting and pitching to be ready to play in what many consider the toughest conference, and she will play the schedule to do so. Boulders answer reassures me we are not alone in our thinking.
Ask the coaching staff of the school she is committed to. I am guessing at 14u they want her playing the National schedule.
Have heard some experiences on the site ,of teams that have these ladies on there teams.Coaches and Org leaders what are your expectations?