I think parents need to be involved in the process.
While they should not draft correspondence as their DD, they do need to review and monitor social media and email correspondence that their DD is producing.
Talking with coaches at some showcase and NFCA events coaches shared some common issues like: Contact Rules, emails not addressed to them or Hey Coach with a string of emails. Other concerns were student athlete email addresses that are not professional or, just bad grammar in general. As a coach I always liked to be CCd on my player correspondence as well.