Agree with Pass4thGame. But it is as two way street. As parent who is 4 years in with a DD who desires college ball, the struggle is real and a serious one. If you are not confident with being able to say yes this is the fit for us then maybe "things happen for a reason".
We have been on opposite side, told by one coach that sold both my DD and spouse as we were upfront that we scheduled several tryouts. He said, "call me right away if you get offers, you're on my short list" even as far as continuing communication and checking in with us to see if still interested for over 2 weeks. To which we communicated back every time, yes. Then all of a sudden...crickets. Another coach also saying we were on short list, to find out a few days later the position offered that she tried out for, girl who originally held it, decided to come back. Told our DD is great, if continues the path she is on will do great things and they are sorry it did not work out. Which is great and I understand that. What I don't understand is then 2 weeks later team post where that same position was offered to an new girl after all. Both teams our DD had heart set on. Both coaches built her up face to face, made her feel she was good enough, talented enough and worthy enough for their team to which she desired to compete.
It's all life lessons and building of character in my opinion. If you don't feel you can say yes now without the worry of "what if there's another offer better" then it's not meant to be. I know it's a bit rare, but honesty is best even it stings from both coaches and parents. Just like the coaches that clearly felt the same of "what if there's that one person better or closer". It's truly a two way street and one not to take lightly if your kid is serious about the game. Just my opinion. Good luck and be confident no mater what you decide.