I guess I'm in the minority. I don't think this thread should be deleted. Some people early on brought up some very good points and maybe people can learn something from this thread. I thought the thread had died on June 2, at about page 10, but logged on today to see there's been another 14 pages. I would have to agree that the last 10 pages or so haven't added much to the discussion and probably could be deleted without losing anything. This thread would be a good primer of what can reasonably be expected from a travel team.
Yes, I once had a coach that lied to me and my daughter. She told the girls on the team that she would work to develop the 12 players she had on her team, but instead recruited more and more girls and asked some of the girls already on the team to leave or just sat them on the bench without explanation. Even though she was very wrong in her actions, we learned something from the experience and learned to appreciate our current team for the coaches, the parents, and the players. If we hadn't had that first experience, maybe we wouldn't be so grateful for what we have today. Things have a way of working out. This person had some very talented girls on her team over the years but has never able to keep them for very long. What goes around comes around. I just wonder how difficult it must be for her to watch other girls play varsity while her daughter sits the bench.