Mad Hornet
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Hi Softball Community! It's been a while since I posted here as I retired from coaching in the Lasers organization two summers ago. I am still in contact with many of my former players we really had a special group and a thing that continually comes up is how now that they are in college they and their parents (most not necessarily all) have come to the realization that for all the work they put in to achieve that goal of being a collegiate player, those travel ball days were the best days of their softball careers.
Sadly, I estimate that more of the players (60-75%?) we helped get into college are having a very negative softball experience. Frankly it seems from at least the sampling of players I know that a majority of softball coaches are disgusting, vile people, worst case, or lazy and apathetic best case. I'm not going to elaborate while they are still playing but at some point I'm considering posting a tell-all. Nothing surprises me anymore, but as I started to learn what was happening I was astounded. I'll give one example: A head coach of one of my former players literally told one of her teammates that he only recruited her because her mom recently died and he felt sorry for her, but "you're never going to see the field".
At one point I advocated for starting a college review section on this forum and it never went anywhere. Sometimes all the research and visits you do before making a decision are just worthless. And current players you ask questions of are too afraid of repercussions to give honest answers. That's the reality and it's at all levels D1, 2, 3, and NAIA.
Sadly, I estimate that more of the players (60-75%?) we helped get into college are having a very negative softball experience. Frankly it seems from at least the sampling of players I know that a majority of softball coaches are disgusting, vile people, worst case, or lazy and apathetic best case. I'm not going to elaborate while they are still playing but at some point I'm considering posting a tell-all. Nothing surprises me anymore, but as I started to learn what was happening I was astounded. I'll give one example: A head coach of one of my former players literally told one of her teammates that he only recruited her because her mom recently died and he felt sorry for her, but "you're never going to see the field".
At one point I advocated for starting a college review section on this forum and it never went anywhere. Sometimes all the research and visits you do before making a decision are just worthless. And current players you ask questions of are too afraid of repercussions to give honest answers. That's the reality and it's at all levels D1, 2, 3, and NAIA.