to go with this, I wonder how many parents / coaches have actually seen a full squad of 'blue chip' level players together at say 14, 16, 18 or 23U, to really understand how good they are? It's one thing for a coach to claim that his/her 16uB squad has several D1 level players (and he might). BUT it's a whole different world when the whole roster is those level players. I mentioned above the Bev Bandits 14U squad I witnessed in May of 2019. They were very, very impressive. Speed, power, pitching, etc. I've seen similar with Hawks gold teams at several different age groups. Seriously, it's like watching a smaller version of a Div1 college team. Pitchers throwing in the 60's, the 9 hole hitter is a bomber, lead off is lefty slapper running home to first ~2.5 sec. etc. Anyone that thinks a standard 16uB team should easily handle a 14uA team, is mistaken.
But with the way tourneys are this year, it's entirely possible that 14uA gets into a tourney at last minute and plays up into the 16U and runs the table. If you get to play against that level of competition, just give max effort and learn from the experience. Players do not improve by always kicking Chico's bail bonds in the teeth.