AceGRC
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We had a tryout just recently where a coach of another organization was found sitting talking with parents of our players trying out.
a young 12U player trying out noticed this coach and notified our 12U coach. We stopped what we were doing and walked over to confront the group sitting in the dugout. We asked who is the coach that is in our tryouts, everyone's face looked shocked. Finally the coach spoke up and said he helps ( ) and his daughter will be trying out for our team. So, we asked which player is she? His reply shes not here but she will be next week." The next day our 12 U coach gets a text from a parent that was in the dugout there and they confirmed their daughter had just been recruited to his team and will not be joining ours. 3 more days another player also left to go to that team. We checked the Facebook of this coach to see if he is with that organization and yes photos have him in that organizations coaching shirt.
This person BOLD FACED stated he was not there for recruiting.... but he was and has no honor.
These things do happen but the boldness of this person is over the top......... I had total respect for his organization for many many years and can not believe how their standards drop so far down and now being practiced. It is hard enough to do things right but when you have these tactics practiced and allowed by your staff members you may gain some good players but you lost RESPECT and a Past Good Reputation.
I tried to reach out to the Organizations Director with no response yet...but as we all know that will not stop people from their ways of operating.
I wonder how well it would be to POST and POINT OUT this person on our team site? I know some people will say just get over it but who wants to turn around and get it in the back again? I have read about these types of stealing player tactics but I never had a bold face lie told to me like that before that I caught as it was happening. A true ( X ) level tactic used... I guess we should have had him removed at that point...lesson learned
a young 12U player trying out noticed this coach and notified our 12U coach. We stopped what we were doing and walked over to confront the group sitting in the dugout. We asked who is the coach that is in our tryouts, everyone's face looked shocked. Finally the coach spoke up and said he helps ( ) and his daughter will be trying out for our team. So, we asked which player is she? His reply shes not here but she will be next week." The next day our 12 U coach gets a text from a parent that was in the dugout there and they confirmed their daughter had just been recruited to his team and will not be joining ours. 3 more days another player also left to go to that team. We checked the Facebook of this coach to see if he is with that organization and yes photos have him in that organizations coaching shirt.
This person BOLD FACED stated he was not there for recruiting.... but he was and has no honor.
These things do happen but the boldness of this person is over the top......... I had total respect for his organization for many many years and can not believe how their standards drop so far down and now being practiced. It is hard enough to do things right but when you have these tactics practiced and allowed by your staff members you may gain some good players but you lost RESPECT and a Past Good Reputation.
I tried to reach out to the Organizations Director with no response yet...but as we all know that will not stop people from their ways of operating.
I wonder how well it would be to POST and POINT OUT this person on our team site? I know some people will say just get over it but who wants to turn around and get it in the back again? I have read about these types of stealing player tactics but I never had a bold face lie told to me like that before that I caught as it was happening. A true ( X ) level tactic used... I guess we should have had him removed at that point...lesson learned