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My DD went to a few try-outs this year for 16u (15u) (should have stopped at the first). At the end of the first try-out the girls were told that if they made the team they would get a phone call in a couple of days. They did not lie, she recieved a call 48 hours later offering her a spot. For a first year organization, they put everything on paper and we knew what to expect. They also didn't hand out any promises that they couldn't uphold.
However, to not put "her eggs in one basket" she went to another one on Sunday (well established organization). Bad mistake-she showed up, did paperwork, and received her number. Other girls went up to the coach (returning players) and asked if they had to wear a number and was disgusted at having to put it on. Right in front of my DD! The coaches had no idea what to do. While the girls were hitting off the machine the others were suppose to be shagging the balls. But, as I looked around I noticed that only the girls that were "trying out" were on the field. The returnig girls were rude and obnoxious to say the least. My DD looked at me and we left right at the end. She later told me that she could tell that there would be drama on the team and she wants no part of it. She gladly turned down that request. Why have them try-out if you are already going to return them? just makes for a longer try-out.
The best tip that I could give to parents is to listen to your DDs thoughts after the try-outs. It might be a well known organization, but she can see right through that. Remember THEY have to deal with the team more than you do.
And coaches--remember you are trying out for the girls as well. Maybe talk to them once in awhile at try-outs and not just your returning players.
However, to not put "her eggs in one basket" she went to another one on Sunday (well established organization). Bad mistake-she showed up, did paperwork, and received her number. Other girls went up to the coach (returning players) and asked if they had to wear a number and was disgusted at having to put it on. Right in front of my DD! The coaches had no idea what to do. While the girls were hitting off the machine the others were suppose to be shagging the balls. But, as I looked around I noticed that only the girls that were "trying out" were on the field. The returnig girls were rude and obnoxious to say the least. My DD looked at me and we left right at the end. She later told me that she could tell that there would be drama on the team and she wants no part of it. She gladly turned down that request. Why have them try-out if you are already going to return them? just makes for a longer try-out.
The best tip that I could give to parents is to listen to your DDs thoughts after the try-outs. It might be a well known organization, but she can see right through that. Remember THEY have to deal with the team more than you do.
And coaches--remember you are trying out for the girls as well. Maybe talk to them once in awhile at try-outs and not just your returning players.