And as cgs pointed out above, Div. 3 is entirely different from 1 and 2. We deal all the time with people thinking we have the same rules as 1 or 2. I get e-mails from girls quite often that say I know you can't contact me...., when in reality we can. If you are sending e-mails or letters to coaches, do different ones for each NCAA division and NAIA.
I know pretty much everyone thinks that if they can't go Div. 1 or 2, then surely they can go NAIA or easily Div. 3, but we just cut 9 girls this fall, many of whom were 1st team all league in high school and played travel ball. If a girl isn't getting any sniffs from a D1 or D2, it's not safe to think she is automatically going to be on a D3 roster.
The other thing is that ability comes first. I have been on both sides of this as a travel/hs coach and now a college coach and I haven't run into any college coaches who aren't looking first at whether a girl is going to help the team on the field. Once that is determined, the girl must have the other things like grades, etc., but I don't think anyone is taking the class valedictorian if she is a .250 hitter in high school ball.