Try outs are what they are.... try outs! Some of you joke about breaking down the swing or drills or even the game itself and the girls just want to have fun! Yeah now laugh about it when daughter wants to make a team and her abilities do not match your expectations or the team she is trying out for.
I have said this before,
"Softball and base ball is a game played by kids however it is orchestrated and run by adults and adults do not like to loose to kids or other adults!"
Hutch, the Coach at Michigan gives some pretty good speeches and one I remember from an NFCA convention was I pick the best 18 players to wear the Michigan M and you will wear what I tell you to wear and hit and field the way I tell you as I am paying for part of your education and my job is dependent on your performance on and off the field. The college coaches
WILL try to change them, so get over it or get ready to sit out a year or change schools....whoops this is like try outs again and this is not what the college coach told us when we signed up!
Pretty simple and yet you as parents
IF they get to the next level will have no involvement or you can take your kid home!
Coach Larabee and I hooked up about 3 or 4 years ago and I have said over and over I can tell if a kid can throw by the way they hit and he tried it and found the same thing to be true.
What are you doing to help your daughter improve their skills when you can not even get them to practice on their own? Are you going to hold their hand in college because if that is true you need to pack your bags and go with them. Work ethic is difficult to breed into a kid isn't it
Most of these coaches know these kids by now and the coaches know who they want and
DO NOT want also and they know who the problem parents are also. They do not need your kid to field a team however they will find some kids to play for them.
The try outs are what they are and the people attending are not always honest either and neither are some of the coaches and their ability to manage 10 to 15 girls.
So you are going to attend or have or will attend tryouts you do not like for what ever reason, so get over it and you are not going to change their minds or coaching, teaching techniques either or how they run their tryouts.
Enjoy the ride or the adventure and learn from it and make better informed decisions and take a bat and beat the telephone pole in your yard or someone elses yard and I hope you feel better after you are done
Make sure it is an old bat or ask me for one as I have a few old one :lmao: