Glevans64,
Since you took the time to post, I'll take the time to give you a couple of answers.
1) Your pitcher hit a batter: Have to be there to see the play, but the attempt to get out of the way is a judgement call. For younger players, if the pitch comes straight in at the batter sometimes all they can do is freeze. Strictly judgement. However, unless the batter does something that looks like she purposely moved into the pitch, the batter should get the benefit of the doubt. After all, it was the pitcher that missed her target, not the batters fault.
Without seeing the pitch, I'll have to give you an "undecided" on that one!
2) Ball bounces into the batter: On a bouncing ball, the umpire should give even more benefit of the doubt to the batter. A bouncing ball can bounce in any direction and can be impossible for a batter to predict.
Unless the batter stands as still as a statue on a pitch that bounces well before the plate, the batter will almost always get first on a pitch in the dirt that hits her.
It almost sounds like the umpire was "evening out" his calls, making up for the first one where he awaded first base. No way of knowing for sure, but that is a huge "no-no" for any umpire calling a game.
Again, it's umpire judgement and, since I didn't see the play, another "undecided"!
3) Play at plate, ball hits batter while in batters box: Still some "had to be there" to this one. On a passed ball or wild pitch, there is no absolute requirement for the batter to vacate the batters box.
The key to this play is whether or not the batter touching the ball is judged to be intentional.
The batter is required to make an attempt to get out of the way, whether she stays in the batters box or not. More of that "umpire judgement" on this one!
Add in the fact that a WP or PB is a mis-play by the defense. The ball can be rattling around behind the batter, making it hard for her to see where the ball is and which way she needs to move to clear out. Also, if the ball doesn't go very far and the play happens quickly, the batter may not have ample time to get out of the way.
If the batter makes any attempt to get out of the way at all, and being hit by the throw is not judged to be intentional, then there is no penalty here.
So, yet another "undecided"!
One thing I can tell you for certain- this is not "obstruction"!
Obstruction is an infraction committed by the defense. When the offense impedes a defensive play, the correct call is "interference".
4) Umpire pulls batter out of way on play at plate: that's just flat-out wrong. The umpire should never interject himself into a play and affect the outcome.
Well intentioned, maybe. But bad form for an umpire.
Now that we have a good "crummy umpire" thread going, maybe I'll start a "bone-headed" coaches thread to balance things out. Present company excluded! ??;D