at first i could not imagine that this many people are p-o-ed about their high school coaches/programs, but then i realized that we have 4x the amount of posts about being unhappy with travel coaches/orgs...so let's try to put this in perspective
the rules are put into place to protect girls from recruiting farms and overzealous candrea wannabes (whoever said that earlier, you hit it nail on)
but if you were to get around something, just have an assisstant dad-coach run the team during the "off" season....this is what happens in suburban leagues where travel players are more likely to exist (in texas anyway, especially in baseball, where kids can play together so long as not being coached by their varsity coach--as he sits in the stands with a walkie talkie)
superlative travel girls/parents will get their time in, regardless...i wouldn't imagine a scenario where dd wasnt playing school ball, this being her last year in january to focus on travel more...waht travel is even going on in april/feb? ?indoor games against lower-rung talent where the girls play to half their ability or abuse lower tiered teams but get no better on skills? ?might as well be practicing every day with a game or 2 a week....and regardless, even if you feel like the coach is going to "mess up" your dd, just sit back and really think about what you are so disgruntled about before posting here or having a carrade (car tirade after the game about your dd being too good for central ohio softball) about rules....yes, there are girls on my dd's school squad that wouldnt pinch run on a travel team...so what! ?every community is going to get a different kind of girl coming out for sports, and you either have some good coaches who coach travel on the side, or a teacher/coach who is taking their time to have a team so the girls at least have a squad....and then, don't blame a teacher for having to grade papers AND teach the intricate fielding maneuvers of a pick-off play....aren't you supposed to be working with your dd anway? ?we ended this conversation between my dd and me long ago
"why didn't you throw the ball?"
" cause she wouldn't catch it!"
"so, you're going to get her out by staring at her with a ball in your hand?"
there you go, teach them to play together and everything will fall into place...the girls already have school and myspace and guitar hero and texting to worry about a high school coaches agendas...after a while, your attitude about the program/other girls/coach will reflect onto your DD, and then you have a prima donna sitting shotgun...no fun at all...
sorry that this rant was hitting so many areas of the dartboard, i should have just quoted david beckham's post and agreed with an icon face but then ringer would accuse me of kissing up to the classics org, of which i already do plenty of :