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As a parent I understand your frustration, but has your daughter or you as parents approached the coach about concerns? That's the first thing that should be done. Coaches are the first people to get slammed if something doesn't go right for a player/parent. It's easy to use them as scapegoats, as a coach myself (not softball), no one realizes how much time they spend away from their own families to coach a sport. As for the asst. coach, they are usually the good guys in anyones staff. The head coach has to keep structure within their team. Whether parents want to believe it or not, players are treated equal, it's the childs responsibility to play up to their potential, not the coach. From what I am reading, this seems to be all about awards. 10 years from now, no one remembers awards, they remember the player and what she did for her team. Quitting should never be an option, that's the easy way out.. to put blame on someone else. Next year your DD should put her heart and soul into proving that she is a team player and wants to be a team leader and role model for younger players. I don't necessarily believe in individual awards, but awards aren't given on stats alone, there are alot of factors involved in chosing receipients for these awards, attitude, team leadership, etc.
I'm assuming your daughter is not a senior since she is contiplating on not playing next year, but if your daughter happens to be a freshman this year, she should be happy that she got playing time. Most schools, freshman sit the bench their first year, they don't get much playing time. If she is a sophomore/junior just have her step it up a notch and remain positive.
Your DD needs to stay positive and not hold grudges on anyone. Remember, some college scouts talk with the hs coaches. Attitudes go along way with college coaches. If they have an excellent player, but they are uncoachable, they pass them by.
Remember, any problems, talk with the coach first before throwing accusations. Coaches deserve respect as do all players
I'm assuming your daughter is not a senior since she is contiplating on not playing next year, but if your daughter happens to be a freshman this year, she should be happy that she got playing time. Most schools, freshman sit the bench their first year, they don't get much playing time. If she is a sophomore/junior just have her step it up a notch and remain positive.
Your DD needs to stay positive and not hold grudges on anyone. Remember, some college scouts talk with the hs coaches. Attitudes go along way with college coaches. If they have an excellent player, but they are uncoachable, they pass them by.
Remember, any problems, talk with the coach first before throwing accusations. Coaches deserve respect as do all players