The elite teams are elite because there are enough parents with enough money to afford the travel and hotels that go along with travel ball. To play for those teams you get to spend most weekends 100+ miles from home and not necessarily even in their own state.
There are very few if any teams that will actually help your DD's game get to the next level...if any...if they did, it wouldn't matter who was on their team cause they'd take the girls to the next level and wouldn't need to recruit only the best.
Softball Lover....
I am going to put my foot in my mouth by saying this and get hammered by people on here for saying this..... But, I believe that the Wolfpack is one of those "Elite Organizations"! My post... This post... is not about trying to sell the Wolfpack Organization to everyone that reads this post, but to just show you are very wrong in your veiw of "Elite" or "Good Teams".
With that being said, We had 13 girls on my team this year, 2 quit before high school ball was over and the other only played in the fall and winter and one summer tournament. So, I had to pick up 2 players, late in April or early May... You don't always get "Elite Players"! You don't always get "Elite Players" just because of your team name!!! But what I try to do is get GREAT people and GREAT families!!! That is what makes for "ELITE ORGANIZATIONS"......GREAT PEOPLE!!!
I have to say, your comment about "Elite Teams" being "Elite" because we can buy the players or find the rich parents is a pretty shallow minded idea.... I guess it sounds better the way you said it... "The elite teams are elite because there are enough parents with enough money to afford the travel and hotels that go along with travel ball."
Anyhow, MY team had plans to go to Vegas this year IF we qualified at 18U ASA. Well we pretty much choked in the tournaments where we had the chances to qualify. In spring we had a few families, like most on OFC, fell on some hardships with jobs & money. We had a team meeting and decided NOT to go to Vegas even if we qualified! Our summer schedule was NOT 100+ miles from home except maybe 2, Compuware and Stingrays. They were our only 2 true overnight trips.
What we did do was, set up a tournament schedule, that IF we played well, we MIGHT get some college coaches to take a look at our girls! The girls were lucky that the coaches saw them play and the girls performed at all the right times!
What I'm trying to say, is this, we had 7 girls get recruited off this team since we put it together last August.
1. Bowling Green D1
2. Toledo D1
3. Youngstown State D1
4. Two are going to Mount Union D3
5. Heidelberg D3
6. Walsh University NAIA
Really only 1 of those girls were getting looked at before she came to my team. I am about, and the Wolfpack Organization is about, getting girls to the next level. That MIGHT be the reason that the "Elite" girls go to the "Elite" teams! NOT because we can find enough parents with enough money to afford to send their kids all accross the country!
There are MANY parents out there with PLENTY of money.... ALL the money in the world won't make average teams ..... "ELITE"
YOU have to have players and parents with dedication, desire, hard work, that are also good and talented and yes, sometimes even "ELITE"