Coach Tony
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"My ultimate goal is to play Division I collegiate softball"
This is a typical and very admirable goal that many young softball players have as they are making their way through the travel ball circuit. And to Ohio's credit, I think we have recently helped produce more collegiate softball players on a national level than our state has any time in the last few decades.
But I wonder if by promoting and supporting this particular goal we are falling a little short. Why not help our players think bigger? Why not go a step further and truly replace "My goal is to play collegiate softball" with "My goal is to be an All American" or better yet "My goal is to help [College softball program] win the National Championship?"
The difference between "My goal is to play collegiate softball" and "My goal is to help win a Division I national championship" is profound, as profoundly different as hiking the Cuyahoga Valley vs. hiking the Grand Canyon.
By changing to this larger goal and committing to achieving it, we inherently have to change our approach to the game:
Being a bench player, being a starter, being an All American, Winning a National Championship are all successively more difficult and demanding variants of the "My ultimate goal is to play Division I softball" dream. And without understanding and committing to working through all that it takes to meet what is required of EACH of these variants, a player gets essentially stuck on the first step of a ten story flight of stairs.
I am amazed by Ohio's own Lilly, Mack, Alvelo, Piper, etc. - all of whom are playing at an unbelievably high level in college, and I am convinced they have performed so well not because they dreamed of being Division I collegiate softball players but because instead they dreamed of being the best softball players in the country, of being All Americans, of helping their teams win championships. And then they worked, and worked, and worked at it. They really are fantastic examples of girls who set the bar very high and have achieved amazing things.
Don't let your daughters or players sell themselves short: Let's encourage and empower our up and coming softball players to set the bar higher and to dream bigger.
This is a typical and very admirable goal that many young softball players have as they are making their way through the travel ball circuit. And to Ohio's credit, I think we have recently helped produce more collegiate softball players on a national level than our state has any time in the last few decades.
But I wonder if by promoting and supporting this particular goal we are falling a little short. Why not help our players think bigger? Why not go a step further and truly replace "My goal is to play collegiate softball" with "My goal is to be an All American" or better yet "My goal is to help [College softball program] win the National Championship?"
The difference between "My goal is to play collegiate softball" and "My goal is to help win a Division I national championship" is profound, as profoundly different as hiking the Cuyahoga Valley vs. hiking the Grand Canyon.
By changing to this larger goal and committing to achieving it, we inherently have to change our approach to the game:
- We go from a purely personal goal to a team-focused goal.
- We raise the bar of our training to a MUCH higher level...consider that the vast majority of Division I softball players would never make a team like Oklahoma or Florida. To even be in the position to help a team win a Division I National Championship, we must first become one of the best softball players in the world.
Being a bench player, being a starter, being an All American, Winning a National Championship are all successively more difficult and demanding variants of the "My ultimate goal is to play Division I softball" dream. And without understanding and committing to working through all that it takes to meet what is required of EACH of these variants, a player gets essentially stuck on the first step of a ten story flight of stairs.
I am amazed by Ohio's own Lilly, Mack, Alvelo, Piper, etc. - all of whom are playing at an unbelievably high level in college, and I am convinced they have performed so well not because they dreamed of being Division I collegiate softball players but because instead they dreamed of being the best softball players in the country, of being All Americans, of helping their teams win championships. And then they worked, and worked, and worked at it. They really are fantastic examples of girls who set the bar very high and have achieved amazing things.
Don't let your daughters or players sell themselves short: Let's encourage and empower our up and coming softball players to set the bar higher and to dream bigger.
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