First, there is no "Bieber Fever" going on in our house!!
However, this is often a debate in our house. Softball is no longer just a summer sport. August try-outs, Fall leagues and tournaments, year long hitting and pitching lessons, winter practices, winter tournaments, school ball conditioning starting in fall, school ball try-outs, school practices, school schedule, then right into summer..... then start all over again!
Our kids are committed to the sports they play, our FAMILY is committed with the time and money we put in year round. Our kids have missed family functions, many parties and outings with friends, school dances, hanging out by the pool and numerous other things so they can play ball. They can't go swimming early on practice days or do anything else that will tire them out for practice. We plan EVERYTHING around ball.... and for the most part that is okay. My children love to play.
If I am told that we have a weekend 'off', you bet I am going to try to make plans to do something else. If a coach has a breakdown in communication and doesn't let me know right away that he/she is changing the schedule, I won't feel too bad about going ahead with our other plans if they are unchangeable or a once in a lifetime experience. That is on the coach for not communicating with the team.
I don't understand trashing kids and parents for trying to live a rounded life outside of softball on a weekend that they thought they had off.