Let's face it. ?You really only truly need 11 players to safely make it through a competitive season, but 12 is okay as long as you can play everyone an equal amount of time. ?My philosophy is this... ?I come to your tryouts expecting a fair tryout. ?If you don't want me as one of your top 11 picks, then please tell me this and be honest about why you are picking me up as a 12, 13, 14, 15TH player and exactly what my duties will be on your team. ? IF COACHES WOULD BE HONEST ABOUT THIS, THEN THERE WOULDN'T BE A PROBLEM, but they know if they say, hey, I would like to put you on the roster to be a safety net for my team of 14 players and you will hit once in a while, or pitch a few games if someone is injured, or catch to give the catcher a rest once in a while, and I won't even bother trying to develop you somewhere else because you are going to sit most of the time, and my daughter will play just because she is my daughter and I need to get her developed, but that's what I need you for because I need to be prepared for injuries or anything else. ?Look at all those "I"s. ?There is no "I" in the word "TEAM". ?Not too many REAL players would want this role, but if they were aware of this and wanted to do this, then fine, all will be happy. ?But if you think you can put me on the bench to keep score and stats that it's okay, you are dead WRONG. ?That is not okay. ?Coaches have a tough job and all players are grateful and lucky if they find a good true coach, but they cannot lay all the blame on the players/parents. ?Most experienced players and parents understand the issues that come with travel ball and expect their daughter to sit every once in a while. ?Anybody paying thousands of dollars for their child has a right to expect them to play and be developed. ?Are you nuts! ?If you want to carry a big roster then you need to be HONEST and then no one can fault you. ?I am a pitcher of 8 years in travel ball and I have been on both ends of the stick. ?I have played NSA and ASA nationals. ?I have played for lower level teams and never got a break from pitching (which was fun but tiring and I felt bad for the other pitchers that sat and didn't like me too much) and I have played with the higher level teams and sat more than I would have liked, (which was BORING and not for me). ?I have been mislead in both situations, both of which were not good. ?honesty. ?If you want to have this team playing 100% for you and paying all the money, you at least owe them honesty and if you do pick me up and I completely understand my role, I expect you to coach me and make me my best, not sit me on the bench all weekend except for one or two games, ?and I expect to be treated fairly and get my share of time on the bench and my share of time playing, and I already know that I have to work hard and always give my best, and I understand I am not always going to be the best player, and my parents already know to not interfere, but if you put me on your roster, you have already lead me to believe I am good enough to be on your team and play unless you tell me otherwise that I am a 12, 13, or 14th safety net player. ?If ?you are not honest with me, then I will be unhappy and so will my parents. ?I COME TO PLAY SOFTBALL AND GET DIRTY, I want to play, I want to get better, I want to learn, I want to have fun, and I want to go to college, so please, if you can't really use me, be honest, or please let me go so that I can find a team that can, where I can play the game and get better and have fun and where my parents can be making an honest investment in me. ?I believe that too many coaches are getting too greedy and it's all about winning. ?I like to win, I try to win, but I can only do that if I play. ?If I can't play, do not invite me to be on your team. ?If I give you problems or slack off, I expect to be benched. ?
What is a fair amount of playing time? ?If we play 7 games in a weekend, at least half of those games should be played by everyone on the team, hopefully more, that's just common sense. ?Anything less than half is not good and not worth the time and expense of traveling and training.
I COME TO PLAY - PLEASE GIVE ME RESPECT, CONSIDERATION, AND HONESTY AND I WILL GIVE YOU THE SAME AND I WILL BE FOREVER GRATEFUL FOR YOUR HELP.