To those of you who know me I have some really strong opinions on certain things?since our son was nearly killed at seven years old on a bicycle, yes I support the wearing of bicycle helmets, he split his head into literally or what is termed a post lateral fracture of the right hemisphere. Since I ride motorcycles I wear a helmet and yes I use seat belts. As a parent, we required what our kid should do based on our belief system and yes I have heard it all as to bicycle helmets and motor cycle helmet wearing and seat belts. This is usually when I show them our son in a bed, on a respirator, in a coma and tell them if you can afford to look at this then you do not need to protect your child and you should stand by what you believe...it always happens to someone else never me any way!
Freedom of choice comes at a price, for some more so than others?those that choose not to wear a helmet and get hurt or disabled from it might consider who foots the bill after the insurance money runs out or the family members don?t want to take care of you any longer and that you made the choice of letting the wind blow through your hair and that we live in American and can do it our way by God!
I have done 4 clinics for high schools this year so far and while we are going over throwing I ask them to look at their gloves to make sure it is adjusted properly i.e. baby finger lock, if they even have one and the thumb lock which all gloves seem to have. I would say 50% don?t even use the thumb lock and or it is not adjusted properly and those that have a baby finger lock don?t even use it or it is untied and stuffed into a finger hole. And you wonder why they can?t catch a ball consistently while their hand is moving inside their glove? Next I ask them to see if the laces are tied and in good condition and they look at me like I am crazy and say what do you mean? When you look at the lacing in the webbing and see the lacing's are broken, not tied or are actually torn they ask me what to do about it. Ask your dad to look at it and then they say my dad doesn't come around anymore and I say OK let me see it.
So now we debate if the mound should be 43 feet or 40 feet, if they should wear a mask, leg protector?s rubber cleats or metal etc. If you are not even looking at their gloves why pay any attention to anything else either. The glove is their first line of defense and if it is not fitted properly then we can not expect them to use it properly can we?
However, I bet you they have a good bat and if you know how to swing it, the world is a better place to play softball in. Unless your kid is the pitcher, third base man or first base man and the coach is calling for your daughter to crash the corners on this hitter?accidents happen, we can not protect our kids from life itself or they would look like a hockey goalie while playing the infield.
Each one of your kids has a different degree of athleticism, so roll the dice and do nothing or use a little bit of common sense when it comes to safety and equipment and inspecting the equipment they already have that you neglected to even look at. Look at your cages on your helmets?are they loose? Can you move the helmet while the players head remains steady and wonder why they can not see the ball well enough to hit it?
Since as parents you don?t inspect the equipment maybe we should just let the umpires do your job and look at everything?it is our job as parents to protect our kids not any one else?s job.
Again, look at their gloves and I would be interested to hear what you found that needed correcting or adjusting that your daughter does not even understand how it works or why. ?Remember it is a game played by kids and is orchestrated and run by adults and adults do not like to loose to kids or other adults.?
I apologize for the rant however I am still coming off my pain medication?.debate is good, however reality is real, game face yes, metal cleats yes, proper fitting helmets yes, inspect your gloves yes?.each one of our kids is unique and not replaceable and is like a snowflake, all different and beautiful unless you have to shovel the white death to get out of the driveway?tell them your story Dan.
Howard