I have a question for college coaches or parents who have been through the recruiting process. My dd can stay at 16U for another year or move up with most of her team/coach that she likes. Is 16U the best place to be recruited? In addition, wouldn't it be better to stand out at 16U as opposed to blend in (be average) at 18U? She had a good year at competitive tournaments, but I think she would "stand out" a lot more if she stayed down next year. Thoughts?