What's is your preferred message to your softball team once your game is over. I'm sure this depends on a lot of factors and there way to many to bring up so I'll cover just a few. Post Game Discussions and how you as coaches handle the difference scenarios. After a stuff lost? After a close win? When you made to many errors? When a obvious bad call cost you the game? When you lost a player due to injuries? When played a team way below your level and mercy than badly? Them are just a few I came up with, feel free to add to ones I missed.