The Delaware Fillies name is new to me and may also be new to 14U coaches in the Central Ohio area. You might want to post more about the level of play that you would expect from your team (i.e., "B", "B++", "A"). For all I know you might have swiped your players from the Lasers organization
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in which case you will in all probability be playing at the "A" level on the ASA scale. Or your team may be comprised entirely of players who are coming out of rec league to the travel circuit, which may mean it is more of a "B" team.
I think that the describing your team in a little more detail will benefit you by getting a friendly opponent who is matched more evenly with your team and will help the other teams decide whether a friendly with your team would be challenging.