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Ok - somewhat "new" to Travel I have a few questions that I would like some advice from Veteran Travel Parents before I go and make a mistake. While daughter is not new to travel she is new to current team. Daughter tried out for several teams and was offered spots, made her decision based on input from us (but of course) on which team would be the best all around team for her to grow/learn/etc. Made the decision knowing that she may not get as much time on the field as another team that offerred her a spot. All is good. Coaching staff is great, parents are wonderful etc. Problem - At the beginning coach passed out "guidelines" for the players/parents. Coaching philosophy was that players earn field time by performance/practice, etc. Now season is here and there are several players that play other sports and have missed numerous practices as well as some indoor tourney's. Last tourney, one of those players started and played every inning while others sat? Weekend practices - girls are missing? We do NOT want to be the parents who complain -- but it appears to us (again new this year) that the rules are different depending on who you are. We will not speak with any other parent on the team regarding this subject, because that is just how problems start. Do we address the coach and potentially risk our daughter being penalized (NOT saying that will happen, but we know it can?) or do we sit back and watch and wait? Daughter LOVES this team and is working very hard, gave up another sport in order to NOT miss practice. Not tooting own kid's horn but she is holding her own and is proving she belongs on the field by her hitting/fielding stats so far, but maybe not seeing much action yet..........We are worried this is a sign of the summer to come.....do we say something or do we sit back and keep our mouths shut??????????????