This story starts when my pitcher walks to the rubber and notices that the wrong rubber had the circle drawn around it. I pace off 40' and uncover the correct rubber, and she proceeds to warm up, No problem.
Game time is logged as 6:32pm. The opposing coach complains to the Director and asks if someone is going to correct the circle. After a 5-10 minute discussion, The game finally begins.
It was a very competitive game, and as we headed towards the later innings I hear the opposing coach REPEATEDLY ask how much time is left? The opposing coach asks if the game was over since time had expired and the umpire explained that the time had not expired, since there was such a long delay to discuss the circle being around the wrong rubber at the beginning of the game.
They take their at-bats in the top and as I am heading out to coach 3rd in the bottom of the inning, I hear the opposing coach continue to REPEATEDLY say that the start time was 6:32pm and that the game should be over. The opposing coach then proceedes to say "ANYTHING TO HELP THE OUTCASTS" loud enough for everyone on the field to hear.
I respond "How did WE get into this?".
The opposing coach ignored my response and CONTINUED TO COMPLAIN "This game should already be over." At this point I called my team in from the field and asked them to "Line-It-Up". As we go through the hand shake line the opposing coach asks "I don't understand what I did wrong?"
I had come to the point that if I did not remove myself and my team from the unsportsmanlike situation that I MAY HAVE SAID or DONE something that would not be appropriate for a Summer League game!!! I explained that we had a second game scheduled at 8:00pm with a team that WANTED to PLAY BALL. After I had shaken hands with ALL of the young ladies AND opposing coaches and had congratulated the opposing coach on the "BIG WIN" and was walking away, the opposing coach said "AWW, We would have WON ANYWAY." and "YOU SHOULD'NT GIVE-UP ON YOUR GIRL'S LIKE THAT."
I explained to my team that this was a SUMMER LEAGUE and that this game was for FUN and PRACTICE. if the opposing team NEEDED this win THAT BAD, then they could HAVE-IT.
Am I over-Reacting??? Is the season starting to get to me??? Is my skin too thin??? How could I have handled this situation in a better way???