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Any chance of getting all the girls signed up for hitting classes somewhere this winter? (and then ongoing)...
Any chance of getting all the girls signed up for hitting classes somewhere this winter? (and then ongoing)...
I'll bet this situation is difficult for the coach as well. I'm sure he knows where his daughter ranks and would like for her to be better.
It's call work at it.
I guarentee I knew where I would be sitting if I wasn't in the top 9 players.
Pickin splinters out of my
As a coach's son... I had to work double hard.
Daboss rest assured that the contingency of my daughter playing for you is extremely remote. You have no knowledge of the facts and yet you go into automatic "coach defense mode" and assume the worst. We joined the team without trying out based on the coach's desire to have the "best of the best" on his team and to someday "compete for a national championship," and because we moved to an area where tryouts were virtually unheard of. There is no "OFC" here and there are no tryouts, or virtually no tryouts. You try moving 1,000 miles away from Ohio to a state that doesn't even have sanctioned high school softball, no discussion board, very few options, no tryouts, in October no less when the few travel teams that are here already had full rosters. And you go on and on about how we selected the club with full knowledge of what we were getting into. We didn't. We made our choice based on the information that was presented to us at the time and without seeing any of the girls. It was hard enough in this area just to FIND a travel team with an open roster spot. I "don't know more than the coach." I'm not a coach. I couldn't coach. And if you had read my post, you'd see that I love the guy. But of the 10 girls on the team, three of them do not belong in travel ball. Period. Any objective person can see this. I have seen the games, and errors and batting averages and throwing motions don't lie. 40% of their at bats are strikeouts, and again that's just a fact. My wife and I are wrestling with a decsion about what to do for next year. And of course my daughter will have the final say. And this isn't the case of a coach batting his daughter third and playing shortstop when she doesn't deserve it. She bats 10th and plays right field. All we really would like to see is to perhaps add a couple of more players making a roster of 12, and then have the girls compete for positions and playing time. Is that such a bad thing?? Does that make me such a bad guy? But of course we cannot even suggest such a thing because it's not our team and as I mentioned earlier how would you even approach the subject? "Hi coach, just curious, since your daughter is batting .145 and isn't playing a very good RF, is there any chance you'll bring someone new on board for next year?" Anyway, Daboss, I do appreciate your point of view although I strongly disagree with your tone and some of your assumptions. We are not a "win at all cost" family but we do see enormous upside for our DD and we think that, in general, there shouldn't be such a vast difference in skill level on a team. And the fact that the weakest player is the head coach's daughter makes this situation very unusual. I've actually never seen it before in travel ball (granted I've only been around travel ball for 2 years). I am very thankful for the coach and I am very supportive of this team. Does that mean we're bound to this team forever in your eyes? But you do make good points and believe me I know that winning isn't everything. Probably should have just kept this one to myself, but was hoping that someone on this board had a similar experience in the past and could offer advice. Administrator if there is a way to delete a thread, please do so.
Being a coach's son / daughter is surely not fun . They expect more out of you and you give it to them.
Klump.. you are getting a lot of Amen Sista's .. this is one. If the coaches DD is not one of the best players on the team it really make it hard on them both, even if he / she plays the DD in the right way according to her talent. Coaches DD's need to be one of the hardest workers on the team, have a good attitude and earn her position .. that is in the perfect world .. we all have things to work on, my dd and I work on her body language (she 'hates' to make an out and it shows) all the time - teams and kids are a work in progress .. there are 12 diff little people out there - they each have their quirks.. good teams work through this and get a little better every week...That is a very sticky situation but nearly impossible to just be quiet and deal with it. It is brutal to watch game after game when it ruins your chances of competing. It isn't fair to the other girls who have to earn their positions on the field, especially when it is obvious to all watching the game that coaches dd did not EARN her position. I would tryout for other teams, even if it means traveling a little....daddy/mommy ball does NOT go away with age and it will eventually make you miserable. Tryout season is just around the corner, get out and see what is out there.
If the coaches DD is not one of the best players on the team it really make it hard on them both, even if he / she plays the DD in the right way according to her talent. Coaches DD's need to be one of the hardest workers on the team, have a good attitude and earn her position .. that is in the perfect world ..
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