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My intent with my comments more often than not is to generate others into thinking in terms of how to help players improve. The comments about letting them fail were intended to generate a thought process for those who read this post. Based on the responses I got it accomplished the goal.
Coaches, players, and parents never want to see failure. Myself included. But EVERY game is won or lost based on just that principle. Someone fails. I have seen that fear in my daughters face as a pitcher. Many a coach has seen that standing on a 3rd base line or in a dugout. If they understand the mindset of their players in a given situation.
This is as much about learning how to deal with those fears of failure on an emotional level as it is about throwing the perfect pitch in the right situation. Often, if you can get a player past that fear of failure the performance will improve in dramatic ways. The average player becomes an above average performer. The all star becomes the the superstar of the team. But players never grow on an emotional or performance level without learning to understand, confront, and overcome fear. Thier biggest fear? Failure and letting the team down. Have talked with may a crying player after a game for just this reason.
If you do not allow them to be placed in those situations then when your at a critical point in a game where you need that perfect pitch or that big hit, will they come through for their team? Not if you dont prepare them on a mental and emotional level to handle the pressure of that situation.
Yes, If they have overcome that fear of failure.
Elliott.