...and presto!! We're back around full circle where college ball is absolutely contingent on grades.
You have to have a completely different mindset for high school ball. Every college coach knows that. Every college coach also knows the difference in competition from high school to advanced club ball. That horse has been beaten to a pulp on this board many times, so I won't even start on that.
I guarantee that a college coach recruiting you will eventually ask a question like "So, how was your high school season this past spring?" Let's say you answer something like "Well, I didn't play for my high school team, because the coach is clueless, and the talent on the team is so poor, they'll never win a game."
Boy - you just said a mouthful that tells the coach a lot about your "it's about me" character. Eventually, the chips will be down on the college team. No college coach wants a kid that refuses to see the forest for the trees. They want team players that will stick with the team through thick and thin, someone to pump everyone up when things aren't going well.
Remember, those high school stats are not recruiting material - but after you ARE recruited, the coach wants that stuff for PR purposes - it's that coaches job to cast the best light possible on their team.