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Reading most of the post here one thought comes to mind would be why even tell him about lessons before a tournament unless it conflicts with a team practice. If he does not know then there is no conflict between player and coach. To some people, taking a lesson usually means correcting something in the swing (or working to correct). He may feel since they are # 1 and 2 hitters he would not want something to change potential success in tournaments. It sounds as if your dd`s go for mental reinforcement of their mechanics which works for them. How many other players and parents have a problem with this coach?