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Man, tonight was a major letdown for our team! We were winning after the full third inning and in our league the games are only supposed to go for 1 1/2 hours. After the third complete inning we were over that time limit. The ump would not call the game and let inning 4 go on. At the bottom of the 4th we had 2 outs and bases loaded, my daughter (pitcher) fielded ground a ball and threw it to the catcher to make the play. I have no idea what happened with the catcher, but she basically just froze. The ball hit her glove, fell right on the plate and she just sat there and looked at it for about -- no kidding-- four full seconds and then the runner hit home plate without her even picking up the ball. After that, they scored one more and we lost. This would have been our first win : ( after 3 losses and 5 rainouts - the girls were so excited they were about to burst (and actually thought they had won when the 3rd inning was over and time was supposed to be up). My daughter feels awful because she was the pitcher in the last inning when they lost it (even though she went through the 3rd inning with no runs scored) because she walked several girls.
I know it was not just that one play that lost a game-- it never is. It is just that one play was so just out of left field -- there was absolutely no reason for it to have happened like that-- any of the girls should have been able to make that play with no problem at all. I can't explain it and really have no inclination to ask the catcher about it because she is only 9 and probably feels bad enough as it is- I am not going to make it worse. Plus other girls botched some other plays during the game and others (many of our best batters) struck out swinging at garbage or just watching strikes go by- so she was not the only one who made a mistake. It was just SO HEARTBREAKING it took everything I had not to cry myself because I have put everything I have into coaching these girls this season. Every practice and every game takes me hours to prepare for -finding good, fun, new drills; going over technique and new ways to teach it, running through positions and lineups and tweaking them; fighting to get field time at our school (who gives the boys' teams top priority), reading coaching book after coaching book, watching videos, etc. etc. etc.
It was just such a huge letdown and so disappointing for the girls not to bring what they have in practice into a game. I am so dejected but know that I have to make tomorrow's practice fun to get their spirits back up too. I'm not sure how to do that just yet -- I think they know what they did wrong, so I don't want to make them feel badly, but I feel like I have to review mistakes with them somehow-- or do I? How do I walk that line between giving them constructive criticism while not making them feel even worse than they already do? I tried to keep an upbeat and happy face after the game and told them I was proud of them for being good sports (the other team was not and their coaches weren't either) but they were all on the verge of tears and were probably in tears (like my daughter) on the way home. I know it's just a game but it is still so hard!
I know it was not just that one play that lost a game-- it never is. It is just that one play was so just out of left field -- there was absolutely no reason for it to have happened like that-- any of the girls should have been able to make that play with no problem at all. I can't explain it and really have no inclination to ask the catcher about it because she is only 9 and probably feels bad enough as it is- I am not going to make it worse. Plus other girls botched some other plays during the game and others (many of our best batters) struck out swinging at garbage or just watching strikes go by- so she was not the only one who made a mistake. It was just SO HEARTBREAKING it took everything I had not to cry myself because I have put everything I have into coaching these girls this season. Every practice and every game takes me hours to prepare for -finding good, fun, new drills; going over technique and new ways to teach it, running through positions and lineups and tweaking them; fighting to get field time at our school (who gives the boys' teams top priority), reading coaching book after coaching book, watching videos, etc. etc. etc.
It was just such a huge letdown and so disappointing for the girls not to bring what they have in practice into a game. I am so dejected but know that I have to make tomorrow's practice fun to get their spirits back up too. I'm not sure how to do that just yet -- I think they know what they did wrong, so I don't want to make them feel badly, but I feel like I have to review mistakes with them somehow-- or do I? How do I walk that line between giving them constructive criticism while not making them feel even worse than they already do? I tried to keep an upbeat and happy face after the game and told them I was proud of them for being good sports (the other team was not and their coaches weren't either) but they were all on the verge of tears and were probably in tears (like my daughter) on the way home. I know it's just a game but it is still so hard!