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Maybe not loaning out players, but allowing or permitting your players to play for another team or organization.
When do you say enough is enough?
Do you limit your players to how many times they they play in a week/weekend?
The situation plays out like this. They are 10U players that play on an established 10U team. Their team (the 10U team) is down one girl to begin with and only has 10. Some of the players have been asked to play up on an 11U team in the same organization for some league games and for some tournaments. These girls can definitely play at that level. It is a vast array of positions. Pitchers, catcher, SS, 3B and utility players. What worries me is it that it seems like the girls are being asked to play up not due to injury, prior commitment or an unforeseen circumstance of said team, but more for their ability to play well. It's flattering for the girls to be asked to play up, it really is. But it worries me on a few different levels.
Some of the worries are:
Over use. If these girls are normally playing an estimated 60 games with us between tournies and league play, can they handle the additional games from another team?
Different coaching styles. We all have our different ways of doing things. I would hate to see them develop bad habits or do something different then what we have worked on all winter long that may be counter productive to what they have learned up until now.
Parents of the team they are being loaned to and their emotions. I don't think it's right to sit primary team players for loaner players. Short of what was mentioned above, injuries or unforeseen circumstances.
Injuries on the loaner team. This is huge for me. I don't want my girls getting hurt at all, let alone on another team. I think that speaks for itself.
Being asked to play and then sitting the entire weekend. I think if the girls and parent understand that they are being asked to supplement that weekend because of what is mentioned above that would be understandable, but to show up and not play, kinda crappy, right?
We are in the same position to a certain extent with the loss of one of our players only a few weeks ago. It places us in a position that we may need someone here and there. So we want to play nice, but it seems like we (the coaches for each team) are on different pages with what they expect with the loaning of players.
Which finally brings me to the end; how do you guys handle it?
Do you go with your girls and watch them?
Do you coach them from the bench?
Do you avoid it all together?
Any advice for a new coach would be much appreciated.
When do you say enough is enough?
Do you limit your players to how many times they they play in a week/weekend?
The situation plays out like this. They are 10U players that play on an established 10U team. Their team (the 10U team) is down one girl to begin with and only has 10. Some of the players have been asked to play up on an 11U team in the same organization for some league games and for some tournaments. These girls can definitely play at that level. It is a vast array of positions. Pitchers, catcher, SS, 3B and utility players. What worries me is it that it seems like the girls are being asked to play up not due to injury, prior commitment or an unforeseen circumstance of said team, but more for their ability to play well. It's flattering for the girls to be asked to play up, it really is. But it worries me on a few different levels.
Some of the worries are:
Over use. If these girls are normally playing an estimated 60 games with us between tournies and league play, can they handle the additional games from another team?
Different coaching styles. We all have our different ways of doing things. I would hate to see them develop bad habits or do something different then what we have worked on all winter long that may be counter productive to what they have learned up until now.
Parents of the team they are being loaned to and their emotions. I don't think it's right to sit primary team players for loaner players. Short of what was mentioned above, injuries or unforeseen circumstances.
Injuries on the loaner team. This is huge for me. I don't want my girls getting hurt at all, let alone on another team. I think that speaks for itself.
Being asked to play and then sitting the entire weekend. I think if the girls and parent understand that they are being asked to supplement that weekend because of what is mentioned above that would be understandable, but to show up and not play, kinda crappy, right?
We are in the same position to a certain extent with the loss of one of our players only a few weeks ago. It places us in a position that we may need someone here and there. So we want to play nice, but it seems like we (the coaches for each team) are on different pages with what they expect with the loaning of players.
Which finally brings me to the end; how do you guys handle it?
Do you go with your girls and watch them?
Do you coach them from the bench?
Do you avoid it all together?
Any advice for a new coach would be much appreciated.