My DD's have been thru travel ball for years now( both in the mid 20's), but my youngest is best freinds with a girl from over 70 miles away and played on another high school and travel team. They have been to Vegas twice and she will soon be in her wedding.I don't think it is a problem with the girls from other teams as it is with the parents. Now that I have coached travel, and now coaching high school,it would be better if the parents just stayed home and let the kids play.