I think it's so funny to hear everyone's opinion on "slappers". The reality is not all girls are built for power...some never will be...so I guess maybe they should just quit the game? Sure, all we see in college now are balls over those DEEP 200' fences....Although it is a reality of today's game, it looks more like a beer league on a weekend than fastpitch softball.
My opinion is this - If your daughter is young and wants to learn a new skill, teach it to her - A couple of things could happen
1 - She could love it, which will keep her motivated to practice....In the meantime, she grows 6 inches, is now all legs, and runs like the wind.
2 - You can keep working on her right handed swing...She can continue to hit ground balls to the shortstop (and get thrown out by 3 steps) or weak fly balls to short center field and decide to quit the game all together.
3 - She tries it for a while, doesn't stick to it as an everyday hitting approach, but has the ability to flip over and drop a bunt or put a ball in play with a slap when the scenario presents itself.
As one of the early posts says, a slap is not just a ground ball in the 5/6 hole - There are many things that can be done from that side of the plate - Girls with sub 3.0 speed have an advantage because they get away with not being that skilled as a slapper, however those that can REALLY slap (soft slap, hard slap, high hop slap, swing away, bunt, hard bunt) can get the job done without being blazers.
Until then, we will continue to tell all the great athletes that don't bring a lot of pop to the plate to move on to ******...Because today's fastpitch is built for girls that can swing a rockettech and pound it over those deep 200' fences.