Each player's path is different and I think we fail at times to respect that. If I could give one single piece of advice to new travel ball players and parents, it would be to respect the path your child is taking and let them make their own decisions. I have seen coaches, parents push D1, but the player wasn't prepared for the D1 schedule, or maybe the talent level was more suited for D2, or they sacrifice their education goals and the player fails miserably because all they heard was D1. We need to be more respectful of what the player wants yet be realistic with them at the same time. Yes, I speak from experience with my DD. DD had interest in and from D2, NAIA, and D3. As parents, we were hoping (and maybe trying to pursuade her to D2/NAIA too hard) she would consider schools with athletic scholarships as well. To avoid WWIII in our house, we as the parents, had to step back and let her make her own decision. She ended up committing to an excellent D3 college with one of the best programs for her education goals. Seeing the joy she has now about her decision and how excited she is lets me know SHE made the right decision, not us as parents. Yes, more scholarship money is a perk, but I also feel your DDs happiness and pride in owning HER decision will be worth every penny spent on a D3 EDUCATION.
And to add to the subject of "does the name on the front of the jersey make a difference", in our experience absolutely yes it did. The first camp DD went to with a certain well known org's name on the front of her jersery, things changed and changed quickly. DD is not a 6 ft tall standout throwing 65 mph, so that name on the jersey allowed her to gain more attention at camps, etc. It all depends on several factors but for my DD, the name on the jersey was a game changer (pun intended...).
And to add to the subject of "does the name on the front of the jersey make a difference", in our experience absolutely yes it did. The first camp DD went to with a certain well known org's name on the front of her jersery, things changed and changed quickly. DD is not a 6 ft tall standout throwing 65 mph, so that name on the jersey allowed her to gain more attention at camps, etc. It all depends on several factors but for my DD, the name on the jersey was a game changer (pun intended...).
Last edited: