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Question for you. Season is all but over and my dd had plans to go to Kings Island on Friday. She asked the coach last week if it was okay to skip practice and he said no problem. Then two days ago on Monday he informed the team they picked up a game for Friday. Dd went up to him telling him she had plans that he had already approved. He made her feel bad and said it was her decision but she didn't seem committed to softball, it was an extracuricular activity.
Now my dilema is this, even though he was an --- about it, I feel he was partially correct. She is part of the team, and if they have a game, she should be there. I wasn't worried about skipping practice, but not a game. It isn't a league game and the team is one of the best around, so while we may hold our own, we probably won't win. Also, she is the only person on the team who has played them before in travel ball. So they really need her experience. This is why I told her she needed to be there.
What do you think, should I change it back and let her go or stay my ground and make her do what i think is the right thing. BTW she is really mad at me right now.
Now my dilema is this, even though he was an --- about it, I feel he was partially correct. She is part of the team, and if they have a game, she should be there. I wasn't worried about skipping practice, but not a game. It isn't a league game and the team is one of the best around, so while we may hold our own, we probably won't win. Also, she is the only person on the team who has played them before in travel ball. So they really need her experience. This is why I told her she needed to be there.
What do you think, should I change it back and let her go or stay my ground and make her do what i think is the right thing. BTW she is really mad at me right now.