A Personal Plea...........

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As only family members and a few other softball families know (when I had to step down from coaching) my 12 year old son Ryan has come down with 3 major illness. Before I get somewhat in detail for the first time on here there is two reasons I am doing this. (1) Making parents aware just in case their son or daughter starts to show signs of coming down with this. (2) We can really use all the thoughts and prayers we can get as we are in to month number 5 with this. Our boy has never been real sick before, the flu was the worst. Typical boy that loved sports and got solid grades in school. Then out of the blue this came from nowhere. Again I will just hit the surface but put out enough to justify where it stands. Feel free to contact me with questions or thoughts if you wish.

As some of you may have seen on the national news the past two weeks and including the Dr.Drew show, there is a town called Le Roy in the state of New York where 12 teenagers has come down with these out of control body tics and couple other things.
Our son Ryan came down with those bad body tics and disorders also back in October. As many doctors dont understand this is called PANDAS (now called PANS) which your antibodies attack your brain thru strept. With our son he is dealing with 2 other issues in which is tied with PANDAS. To this day most doctors will not claim it being PANDAS (including Dr.Drew) since this is fairly new.

He has been out of school since October and just started tutoring 3 hours a week so he can pass 6th grade. In his case the body tics make him not able to control any of his body limbs and always shaking. By night fall his body is so tired he can not stand up and his mind plays tricks on him (which that is finally starting to get better) where he is scared of everything. He is still sharp mentally and doing great on his school work thru his tutor.
Our biggest fear that he is starting to give up hope and if that happens we could possibly lose him.

He has been seeing world specialist in Detroit Michigan, Akron and now in New Jersey. All the treatments and test he has been thru the months and nothing has improved. He has started a new steroid treatment the other day so hopefully that will help.

VERY IMPORTANT.............

If you see your child start with small twitching in their face (eyes and cheeks) and then shoulder and arm twitching, please get them checked out ASAP! This is a very serious illness which is a temporary life changer(atleast we hope it is only temporary). As most of the country does not know, this is not just a New York thing. Yes the spotlight is on that city right now (deservingly so with 12 of them getting sick) but there are many cases in other parts of this country.

PANDAS works in many different ways. I would ask you would look it up if you have free time. These young people including our boy has it worse with this PANDAS and have the body tic issue.

Thanks for taking the time to read this. I know this is nothing to do with softball and I apoligize for that!

Barry Chaffins
 
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Thank you so much for the information Barry, I read that story and I thought it was kind of a New York thing too. I hope your boy has a speedy recovery and we will keep him and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
 
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You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. As parents we always worry about our children. Thank you, Barry for giving us the information on what to look for.

As a big softball family we all know that somethings are bigger than the game...My prayers for your son and a steady recovery.
 
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Thank you Barry for posting this info, It is important for everyone to know the signs.
You got our prayers for your son to
make a healthy recovery.
Please keep us informed on his progress and recovery.
Thank you again for sharing this with us.

Dave
 
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Wow. My heart goes out to you and your family. I can't even imagine? 12u emeralds will be praying for your boy. Wishing your son a speedy recovery.
 
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Wow - - I'll be thinking about you guys and hope this all continues to resolves and at a fast pace. Poor kid - just heartbreaking!
 
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Thoughts and Prayers to you and the family and for your sons speedy recovery.
 
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Barry ... thanks for sharing this, and prayers for your son and family.
 
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Barry

Hope Ryan is better soon. You know you've got my prayers.

Tom
 
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Barry-
My prayers go out to you and your family. Your concerns about your son's giving up hope is heartbreaking. As long as you keep loving him in the way you have, I can't see him doing that.
Thanks for giving us all the heads up so we can remain vigilant on this rare condition.
 
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Barry
We would like to let you know your son will be in our prayers.
 
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I am sorry that your son and your family have to go through something so frustrating and uncontrollable! Must be very difficult for him and you as a family to watch and be so helpless. I will be praying for some kind of a cure or just relief for your!! Keep the faith Barry. God is great and big enough to hear all prayers!!
 
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Hawks 99 Davis will keep your son and your entire family in our prayers.....
 
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Hang in there!! Only a true leader would take the time to help educate others while going thru this nightmare at home. My prayers to your son and family and again----hang in there!!!

Thank you.
 
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Barry, I met you in the early fall, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
 
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Barry... breaks my heart... prayers to your son .. if there is anything we can do please let me know ... please keep us informed as to his progress... I will pass this on to our families...
 
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Prayers to your son. I have a 12 year old son also. Thanks for sharing your story.
 
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Barry, thanks for sharing. Your son and you will be in our thoughts & prayers! :)
 
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Our best to you from your Wizard family... let us know if we can do anything.
 

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