Wow, WNY you had better get that attitude under control. Hollering at a catcher by a pitcher is not appropriate, hollering at Dad is not remotely acceptable.
The first rule of a practice catcher is 'do not to get hurt'. If she throws the ball in the dirt move, get out of the way, protect your face, pick the ball off the net, toss it back and live to catch another day. This is her practice not yours.
She is lucky to have someone catch her and you have signed up for literally a million pitches. You've got to last 8 more years and then she'll be some poor college catcher's problem. You had better break her of the 'Mound Princess Syndrome' before it can get started.