While I think the two posts above are correct, you can always find 'A' team. I'm not always sure you can find 'THE' team. If she's been offered a position on a 'elite' team/organization and she's dragging her feet, unless she's one of the top players in the state, they aren't going to wait forever for her; there are other girls who are jumping to fill those positions.
Also, I wouldn't just let her pick a team because it's an 'elite' team/organization; I've seen several girls over the last couple of years go to such an organization and then realize the atmosphere of those teams aren't what they are looking for.
JMHO