I don't know if it makes me "sick," but travel ball sure has changed from what it used to be. Just saying that makes me feel old and I'm definitely not that old yet, haha!
When I played we travelled every weekend to the biggest and best tournaments we could find in order to challenge ourselves and play the best competition. It WAS travel ball. One weekend might have been in NY, the next in Cincy, the next in Chicago, etc. etc. We wanted to be the best. The number of tournaments was a lot less and the number of teams was a lot less as well though, too. The dynamics have changed drastically. There was no question as to what nationals you aimed to qualify for and no one questioned where you should be playing on the weekends because everyone knew. But, like I said, times have changed. There are people on this board that have been around travel ball longer than I have as coaches and/or players that can attest to this.
My team this year will travel quite a bit, but the girls will also be seen by a lot of college coaches and gain valuable exposure to top level teams. JMHO.