^^^^Maxx and others are exactly right. Before we even get to telling your defense where it is going to throw the ball before the play unfolds, any coach laying down a sac bunt with 1st and 2nd and one out (especially with the #3 hitter at the plate), needs to have his/her head examined. As Maxx stated, you are going to take the easy out and perhaps thank the other coach while you're at it. And then as others stated, you may very well be walking the #4 hitter, and voila, you have completely avoided the #3 and #4 hitters! What in the world type of strategy is it for the offense to take two runners on base with the 3 and 4 hitters coming up, and then give away an out and make sure those two hitters do not get a chance to drive anyone home? If I'm an Athletic Director and I see that, that coach had better be equipped with a really good explanation for me the next day or else I'm putting together a list of candidates for a new head coach.
As to the other point, while I will lean extremely strong toward taking the sure out, I don't want my defense in a mode where they are thinking they HAVE to go to first before the ball is ever bunted. I want them thinking, ok, we are leaning strongly toward getting a sure out here if they bunt, but now let's see how the play unfolds. For example, if it becomes just as easy to go to third for the force because the bunt was popped up and the third baseman got it on a short hop (runner on second had to hold up to avoid a possible double play), then sure, let's go to three.
Ricky, thanks for the question. Since I can't comment on individual players or teams and who is arguing with who, this gave me something to talk about on here again!