coachjwb
Well-Known Member
This is slightly off topic, but a few comments in a couple posts here are bothering me, and I need to get it off my chest ...
So lots of times coaches yell at players when things get sloppy on the field. Sometimes it's the player(s) who actually messed up, sometimes it's just whoever is closest to them or who made the last mistake in a series of mistakes, and sometimes it's the best player on the team who should have known better. That doesn't mean they are blaming everything on that particular player. It's a normal reaction ... not always the best response but it happens. But here's a difference between coaching boys and girls ... girls (and their parents) take it personally and boys (and their parents) don't ... yeah it's a generalization/stereotype (and yeah it's the same parents!) but after coaching well over 50 teams of boys and 50 teams of girls, I will debate this with anyone.
So lots of times coaches yell at players when things get sloppy on the field. Sometimes it's the player(s) who actually messed up, sometimes it's just whoever is closest to them or who made the last mistake in a series of mistakes, and sometimes it's the best player on the team who should have known better. That doesn't mean they are blaming everything on that particular player. It's a normal reaction ... not always the best response but it happens. But here's a difference between coaching boys and girls ... girls (and their parents) take it personally and boys (and their parents) don't ... yeah it's a generalization/stereotype (and yeah it's the same parents!) but after coaching well over 50 teams of boys and 50 teams of girls, I will debate this with anyone.