Most likely your kid is one of the 75% of the students that conduct themselves in a respectful manner at school and you would not find them involved in this activity .
The other 25% of students do not care about the difference between being "outstanding" and "standing out".
Sounds like in this case it was two students that wanted to stand out so, you would not have much luck in embarrassing them.
I need to defend the two kids A LITTLE... They are really great kids from everthing I've seen for 5+ years. I believe this DATING thing is new, as well as the hormones, and maturity required to handle all of that. These kids will be fine...
It was just fascinating that NOBODY(Parents, Adminsitration, Peers) took any action to embarrass them, or at least prod them in the right direction.
EVEN THE BEST KIDS will make bigger mistakes then this. I saw an entire community take it in and not sure anyone really reached out to the kids..... Well NOT IMMEDIATELY. I did send an email to both kids coaches advising they should review the Student/Athelete conduct forms with their kids with a review of what happened, but no names.