As a pitcher's dad, I admit feeling a little ticked off when somebody else's dd was in the circle. But that is a feeling you've got to eliminate. Especially in the younger ages, when the parents don't know enough about the dangers involved, or arroga (actuallyntly think their dd is different, experienced coaches are the last line of defense for the girl's safety. I realize this may seem to be arguing on both sides, but it took me several years to learn this. As a coach, I kept pitch counts.