softballx10
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I'm a mother who daughter is 11 and play on a 12 under team, Coaches says I'm overreacting about my concerns over boyfriends attending team function.
Every practice and every game at least 3 or 4 of the player's boyfriends show up. I wouldn't be so concerned if the girls were over 16 years of age but we're talking about a 12 under team with mostly 11 year old girls.
It's becoming a big distraction during the games and practice. Not only because the boyfriends are presence, but from the conversations the girls have about their boyfriends and their activities off the diamond. My husband and I have even discussed leaving this program, the only reason we haven't left yet, all fees have been paid for 2017, if we leave we will forfeit $1200 in team fees and it a top level program.
My husband and my concerns are more about some of the conversations that we believe are inappropriate for young girls.
Has anyone else ever had this problem? How did you handle your discussion with the Coaching staff? My husband says if changes don't happen we need to start looking for a new team and I agree.
Every practice and every game at least 3 or 4 of the player's boyfriends show up. I wouldn't be so concerned if the girls were over 16 years of age but we're talking about a 12 under team with mostly 11 year old girls.
It's becoming a big distraction during the games and practice. Not only because the boyfriends are presence, but from the conversations the girls have about their boyfriends and their activities off the diamond. My husband and I have even discussed leaving this program, the only reason we haven't left yet, all fees have been paid for 2017, if we leave we will forfeit $1200 in team fees and it a top level program.
My husband and my concerns are more about some of the conversations that we believe are inappropriate for young girls.
Has anyone else ever had this problem? How did you handle your discussion with the Coaching staff? My husband says if changes don't happen we need to start looking for a new team and I agree.