New Coach looking for Advice.

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I started coaching Softball 2 years ago for my DD team. I never had any coaching experience but I got the major bug after just our first practice. I was a state champion ball player so I know the game well. I am looking for a established winning coach that i can email that could show me how to go about starting my own travel team for the 2015 season. I am new to the travel community and want to make sure its all done the way a Winning organization would do it. I want to learn the what to dos and what NOT to dos. I was put here to coach and mentor and I am looking for some friendly advice on the best and proper way to do it. Thanks to whoever reads and could lend some advice.

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You are opening a can of worms on here. Be prepared for some good advice, and some smart a$$ comments. Good luck! And some of ya don't act like you don't know what I'm referring to. ;&
 
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My best advice, given the number of teams still looking for players this year... don't start a new team. Have your daughter try out for an existing team, a solid existing team. If they need coaching help, offer your time. If they don't, set your chair up down the fenceline and enjoy watching your girl play.
 
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I had a coach tell me that he was tired of me asking him about why he done this or that and if I wanted to coach find another team. So far I have not had any parents that have got on my nerves. I guess I have taken some advice into consideration from a parent or two but I have never been angry towards them or flat out tell them I am the coach your the parent butt out. I feel if your a coach and you can't handle parents correctly you might want to find another field to be in. There are a lot so-called select or travel teams out there now so it is watered down quite a bit over the years. So much so that some good rec teams can compete with them.
 
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Just my .02 cents...If you're a man, and you won "state championship" playing baseball, you really don't "know this game well". It's entirely 2 different games. If you're a woman, the level between TB and HS is substantial. Best of luck on your journey.
 
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I am NOT a softball coach but I have coached 2 DD's thru another sport and I spend lots of time with Girl Scouts of all ages and train the adults who volunteer with them.

My advice to you is to develop a very thick skin. Parents are harsh and meddlesome. Girls can be whiners and manipulators.
However, girls will work their butts off for an adult who is respectful, raises the bar on skill development, consistent in expectations, and follows through on promises and consequences. Sometimes you need to explain the "why" behind what you do and other times you just need to leave it at "because I said so"-but leave those to as few as possible. Example: if the girls are missing plays because gloves aren't in the dirt, then the next practice is 1 hour of grounders-it's a totally natural consequence.
My DD's favorite coaches have been the ones who did those things. She may not have liked it at the time but she knew she was learning and improving so she dealt with the "mean" coach.
Good luck!
 
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. Draw up clear expectations before tryouts
2. Would be best if you did not have a dd on the team
3. Determine the level of team you aspire to be (community, mid-level, elite)
4. Find an assistant that knows the sport and knows players your age - this is alot about recruiting
5. Set out a plan and follow through with it
6. Once team goals are set and you pick a team, set schedule to match your goals - pgf and asa if elite
7. If team is older, get on the recruiting bandwagon now - camps, coaches, showcases etc.
8. Set a schedule complete with practices, friendlies, tournies and nationals
9. Find a parent or assnt coach that will do much of the organizational stuff
10. Consider starting a team in an existing organization, will have much of the work done , ie non-profit stuff, getting into tournies

if you are serious, pm me, I will call you and help anyway I can

Coach Murph
 
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Stop.
Quit.
Get out now, while you still have your sanity. :-D

Actually I concur with the post that suggested you expand an exiting organization.

Good luck!
 
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If you have a DD on your team you have to walk a fine line amongst parents and players.
 
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This game at any level needs quality volunteers. Personally, I believe your enthusiasm speaks volumes of your personality and with all do respect like to share with you some things you will need to know.

As you can tell, the regular OFC'ers are struggling with your thread opening remarks that you would be a benefit to our sport. The reason, as already shared, is the point you want to make about your baseball background. Except for the fields being indentical in shape but not size, that's almost the only thing that's relevant. fastpitch is different---------and we've all heard and seen your kind before with horrific results. All of us experienced baseball before softball, either as a player or fan at some time in our lives. After all the years we can say without doubt that your baseball experience won't help much.

You mention coaching girls in other sports. Perhaps you played them as well. That's fine because they do relate the same whether they are boys or girls playing them. The one thing that might help is the experience of actually coaching the girls which is different from coaching boys. If you don't believe me on this statement then even that experience is yet to be learned by you. The desire to organize a "New" travel team is admirable but most will agree the timing is wrong. travel teams normally form and host tryouts in August. most have rosters full by Sept. or Oct.. If you don't have your pitching staff and battery in place and your roster within a player by now the moral thing would be to release the kids to other organizations looking for a player so your own ego doesn't keep the ladies from missing a summer of ball. If you believe you already have a roster of girls that will follow your lead, I suggest you waste no time collecting the fees and getting them signed up for the summer. Getting a full commitment from so many families is its own monster and most of us are sceptical you'll pull it off first try this time of year.

If you've never been a part of a fastpitch travel organization before, I highly recommend you take your daughter to 1 of the clubs still looking and give her a chance to make their squad. Then take a summer to see to it she gets where she needs to be and be an observant parent on the fence----------with your mouth shut and your mind open to learn. If you take your own daughter to numerous clubs this time of year and cannot get selected to the program, then odds are you have no business starting a new team. Starting a team just so your daughter can play and you can feed your inner child will not help anyone.

In the above case; I'd suggest you get involved as a volunteer assistant to your local Rec. program. Help with honing kids' basic skills such as catching, fielding, throwing the ball, then take in some clinics this winter from a qualified program or instructor and learn how to teach your daughter how to hit. Again, just because you played baseball doesn't make you a hitting instructor. There ARE some unique differences in the swing for many reasons. Some of the basic mechanics ARE the same but need to be taught differently to females.

Lastly, if you are totally serious about actually learning how to teach this game the correct way from the best in the business, get you wallet out and join the NFCA (Natoinal Fastpitch Coaches Association) and sign up and and attend the NFCC (National Fastpitch Coaches College) courses offered. That way you'll be taught the game from the best college and Olympic coaches in the world including Candrea, Miller, Gasso, and Edwards.

Please don't be discouraged by what you've read. We want you to be successful in your quest to get involved. Do it for the right reasons. Do it the right way. Take time to learn the game yourself before jumping into a leadership roll just because you can. Wrong is wrong. It doesn't matter if you're doing it or teaching it. Showing others how the wrong way, leading others in the wrong manner is still wrong. In the scheme of things the young ladies don't have a very long career being kids and playing this game. Wasting a summer misguiding them will simply put them behind others in the learning curve.
 
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