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I just finished reading a comment on another thread regarding parents and coaches and it has me wondering why is it that parents and coaches become so bitter towards one another?
I know this is a broad statement and doesn't apply to all but it certainly affects enough of us, not to mention our kids, that I thought it might warrent some honest discussion and not just the quips and nastiness that threads sometimes are reduced to.
We talk about wanting our dds to become good athletes and productive adults someday but a huge obstacle for them in the softball world can be being surrounded by adults who can't problem solve or communicate productively with other adults.
Do you really believe that our dds don't know when parents and coaches disagree, to put it mildly in some cases? Do they not witness the behaviors unbecoming of an adult at times? Would you not agree that these things can negatively affect our overall goals for each girls?
I apologize for the soapboxing but I am very interested in thoughtful responses from the softball community.
I know this is a broad statement and doesn't apply to all but it certainly affects enough of us, not to mention our kids, that I thought it might warrent some honest discussion and not just the quips and nastiness that threads sometimes are reduced to.
We talk about wanting our dds to become good athletes and productive adults someday but a huge obstacle for them in the softball world can be being surrounded by adults who can't problem solve or communicate productively with other adults.
Do you really believe that our dds don't know when parents and coaches disagree, to put it mildly in some cases? Do they not witness the behaviors unbecoming of an adult at times? Would you not agree that these things can negatively affect our overall goals for each girls?
I apologize for the soapboxing but I am very interested in thoughtful responses from the softball community.