The grass is NOT always greener...
I am going to chime in on this post and I'm not quit sure why ?:-?.... but I am hoping my post is going to open some eyes on how or why the Wolfpack, does, will do, or has done things! These statements are my own, and in no way refelct anyone else from the Wolfpack. I just want to make sure that everyone realizes that these are [highlight]MY [/highlight]reflections on [highlight]MY [/highlight]organization.
I guess the main reason I am posting is because of my PRIDE for the Wolfpack. I am not on here today to promote the Wolfpack, nor am I trying to defend anything the Wolfpack has done or may do in the future, but rather to share my own personal observations from the side of what "Sammy" says, is one of the top Organizations or Teams in Ohio.
Or maybe I posted today because of some GUILT that I have for past players. Over the past 8-9 years, I have seen girls come and go within the Wolfpack Organization, and everytime one leaves I ask myself numerous questions: But never do I get many answers.........
1. What did we do to make that girl not want to continue to play for us?
2. How can I improve this Organization to attract new players 10U-18U?
3. Why do people want to play for the Wolfpack?
4. What do we have to offer that makes us better than another organization? What don't we offer?
5. Why do people want to play for the Wolfpack? Why don't people want to play for us? ?
First off I'd like to say Thank You, to Sammy (sarcastic or not), for considering The Wolfpack as one of the "Best." I'm not sure what "Best" means...Organization or Team? But Thank You anyhow. I guess I felt I needed to speak up when I saw this post because when I see our name appear on OFC or JJHUDDLE I just want to make sure that all the information is warranted and true, so to the best of my knowledge it is. Since poster Sammy threw out my organizations name as being one of the top teams along with Grand Slam, Lasers, and etc. I'm going to go out on a limb and let you know that the Wolfpack is not any better than anyone else when it comes to "the grass being greener." We make mistakes too, we are all human as well, but [highlight]I[/highlight] will take [highlight]ALL [/highlight]of the blame from anyone that has had a bad experience with the Wolfpack, because it eventually falls back into my lap as being the head of the Wolfpack Organization. I know along the way at some point in the last 8-9 years myself or other coaches have cut the wrong kids, kept the wrong kids, played kids in the wrong positions, batted for kids, pulled kids from the game, sat kids, told 1/2 truths to get players, promised positions or playing time. With that all being said, it is sad to say that most teams have done it from time to time to get that "special" player. Well shame on me for even thinking it yet allowing it to ever happen whether on my team or any team within the Wolfpack. When I started the Wolfpack 8-9 years ago I never invisioned an organization, only 1 team, built on only my beliefs, values, and philosophies. Because when you add new teams and new coaches you can't always know that the new coaches will have your same beliefs, values and philosophies. ?
I personally have put in 8-9 long years building the Wolfpack that I am still very proud of. The Wolfpack was built from the ground up with a strong foundation and with players best interests in mind. That was and still is my beliefs for the Wolfpack Organization.....I am not out to be the biggest organization or the organization with the most trophies. The Wolfpack is in operation to provide dedicated fastpitch players with an opportunity to participate with a quality program dedicated to teaching basic fundamentals. I want ever player to excel academically, spiritually, and athletically. I told myself to never lose sight of the fact that softabll is a "people business" and people are the most important thing in your program. Any kid that played for me understood and believed that I cared about them and that I worked in her best interest. Dealing with young people in this manner will provide the Wolfpack the basis to be considered a "successful" organization.
I often ask myself questions like, "What can I do to make these girls feel special? How can I get these girls to trust me? I felt that if I could win their trust, then winning games would be the easy part. To me it has always been about teaching life lessons. I stress with each player how important trust, loyalty, committment, and building friendships with each other are. Each player that I ever coached was made to feel they were an important part of our softball family. I went out of my way to do things for kids to make them feel special and feel like they had ownership in the team, rather than, "I am the coach and you are the players mentality." ?
I once was told by a very special man, George Duhon, "That whatever you do in life make sure that you do it the best you can, and that you do it with ALL your heart, and most importantly do it because you LOVE it!" He also told me, "First impressions are unfortunatly very true, so make sure that you do things the right way, the very first time. When you are teaching kids, do it because you love it, not because you are trying to gain something from them. Teach basic fundamentals because without a sturdy foundation the walls will eventually crack and the house will eventually cave in on your head."
Remember we are the ones teaching the values of the next generation. I urge parents, to find the right fit, for both you and your daughter, it is not an easy process. Take your time, research before you commit. Don't rush anything. Watch teams and coaches during the summer. See how they interact with players, other players, parents, coaches and tournament officials and then make your decision.
The best motto I ever learned was to treat people with honesty and respect because that would be the way I would want to be treated. Players, coaches and parents deserve this. [highlight]Remember why we do this???? It is and always should be ALL about the girls!![/highlight] Why would anyone want to come to a team or organization if you treated them any other way. That is what the Wolfpack was built on when I started it back in 1999.
When looking over the fence at the greener grass make sure that it is the right fit for you and your family before hopping the fence.
Jamie Wolff