For the family's sakes, I'd feel alot better about higher tournament fees up front instead of entry fees. Food, let them charge whatever, that's a personal choice. Parents pay a huge amount for organizational fees, hotels, equipment, gas, and so on. To be hit at the door with more expenses is a slap in the face. Yes I understand higher tournament fees would translate to higher team fees, but that's all up front. I've had family or friends express interest in watching my dd for a game, maybe two on a weekend, but I've actually discouraged them, not wanting them to PAY to be supportive.