sbfamily, your points all are on the mark.
What the escalating $$ and time demands create is a diminished top-level supply. Hence, less competition for athletic scholarships in Ohio (not SoCal, softball is a way of life on the coast).
Those who have some ability, resources ($$$$) and, most importantly, dedication stand an excellent chance of earning an athletic scholarship to play softball at a Division I institution.
I am not going to argue the base math of how many players play high school softball vs. the 42-44 scholarships available from the 11 DI softball-playing colleges/universities in Ohio.
However, I will say that the statistics do lie -- 99 percent of the high school players have already eliminated themselves from the competition because of lack of preparation at 11u, 12u, 13u, 14u, 15u, 16u.
I will contend that the percentage among the talented young female athletes who have committed to the sport, who have trained to develop non-innate skills, who have made prudent decisions on selecting instructors, have nearly a can't-miss situation on earning an athletic scholarship. The more they produce, the higher the value of the scholarship and higher the level of the program from which it comes.
You MUST have three factors to succeed in this equation:
1. parent support (money, time, energy)
2. focus (dedicated to improving skills over a long period of time)
3. perseverance (stay the course)
There is no question fast-pitch softball with its equipment, training, team, travel costs is a financially-discriminating sport.