don't forget the importance of matching the level of committment and expectation. ?Some athletes may fit best with a tournament team that comes together only on the weekend to play, while other athletes may seek a team that emphasizes frequent instruction and practice - along with the willingness and availability to make the more demanding committment.
Some kids aspire to play Division 1 ball, while others seek some competitive play but don't see themselves playing fastptich in college.
For some, 5 tournaments a year may suffice, while others will have a better fit with the team that plays 10 tournaments.
And then there is the question of whether to be a stronger member on an average team, or a relatively weaker player on a more competitive team.