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Parents here are a few thoughts to ponder:
* Maybe the other team is simply better on that day and time.
"No, we have the talent, it's just a matter of when we're going to start playing."
* Your daughter going 0-4 and then blaming the coach, how is this his fault?
"She is not getting the coaching she needs. And he is messing up her swing (which may be true in many cases, actually)."
* If we get the #1 seed on Saturday, we have to be the best team right? Answer no, no one has ever won a championship on Saturday, the real test begins on Sundays when the games matter.
....Another answer is that many of the top teams aren't playing all out to win in pool play and they might not care where they wind up in the bracket because they know they will be good enough to advance.
* My daughter should pitch every game. Just my opinion, but no, why not let someone else a chance in pool play games. If your daughter is the best, she'll be out there on Sunday when it matters.
"My daughter is clearly the best pitcher, especially if she had a defense behind her."
* That kid has never played that position, why are they out there? Maybe its their turn to learn that position, or maybe the coach is trying to develop her and make his team deeper at each positions.
"Coach is setting her up to fail!!!" BTW, I just told one of our players the other day that, besides pitcher and catcher, if you are even remotely a ballplayer, then I should be able to put you at any infield or outfield position, allowing for a bit of time (15 minutes maybe) to learn cutoffs and relays at certain positions.
* My daughter isn't a 3rd baseman, she's never played there. Well guess what how is she ever going to learn to play there? If she always plays second, and she moves up and their is a better second baseman ahead of her, does that mean she'll sit the bench or guess what, she may have to learn a different position.
"My daughter is the best second baseman on the team!" Even if that's true, our best overall defense might not include your daughter at third base. Further, see my answer above about being a ballplayer.
* If we lose one game in pool play, everyone will be down, and not able to recover. Its just my opinion, but in losing you find out what you need to improve upon, and if you win all the time, you may never improve upon your game. We have lost plenty of games in pool play in the past, with hopes of Sunday getting a rematch with them, which in my opinion motivates a group even more.
"Now the girls have lost all their confidence." This thought that a single loss is going to ruin a team is absurd and leads to overreaction, which is far more dangerous. Often a team in our game will lose a game to an inferior team. It's ok. It usually means nothing. Statistically, it's going to happen, just as the Yankees often lose to the Orioles.
* Maybe the other team is simply better on that day and time.
"No, we have the talent, it's just a matter of when we're going to start playing."
* Your daughter going 0-4 and then blaming the coach, how is this his fault?
"She is not getting the coaching she needs. And he is messing up her swing (which may be true in many cases, actually)."
* If we get the #1 seed on Saturday, we have to be the best team right? Answer no, no one has ever won a championship on Saturday, the real test begins on Sundays when the games matter.
....Another answer is that many of the top teams aren't playing all out to win in pool play and they might not care where they wind up in the bracket because they know they will be good enough to advance.
* My daughter should pitch every game. Just my opinion, but no, why not let someone else a chance in pool play games. If your daughter is the best, she'll be out there on Sunday when it matters.
"My daughter is clearly the best pitcher, especially if she had a defense behind her."
* That kid has never played that position, why are they out there? Maybe its their turn to learn that position, or maybe the coach is trying to develop her and make his team deeper at each positions.
"Coach is setting her up to fail!!!" BTW, I just told one of our players the other day that, besides pitcher and catcher, if you are even remotely a ballplayer, then I should be able to put you at any infield or outfield position, allowing for a bit of time (15 minutes maybe) to learn cutoffs and relays at certain positions.
* My daughter isn't a 3rd baseman, she's never played there. Well guess what how is she ever going to learn to play there? If she always plays second, and she moves up and their is a better second baseman ahead of her, does that mean she'll sit the bench or guess what, she may have to learn a different position.
"My daughter is the best second baseman on the team!" Even if that's true, our best overall defense might not include your daughter at third base. Further, see my answer above about being a ballplayer.
* If we lose one game in pool play, everyone will be down, and not able to recover. Its just my opinion, but in losing you find out what you need to improve upon, and if you win all the time, you may never improve upon your game. We have lost plenty of games in pool play in the past, with hopes of Sunday getting a rematch with them, which in my opinion motivates a group even more.
"Now the girls have lost all their confidence." This thought that a single loss is going to ruin a team is absurd and leads to overreaction, which is far more dangerous. Often a team in our game will lose a game to an inferior team. It's ok. It usually means nothing. Statistically, it's going to happen, just as the Yankees often lose to the Orioles.